The most sensational feelings are those that are experienced vicariously through those we love and care for deeply. Hearing their laughter and being obsessed with their smile.

At a private spot where no one could see you, unless if someone really might come. The feeling of maybe getting caught. You don’t care, they don’t care, maybe it’s more fun with a little bit of danger.

Think about the moments you’ve felt super sexy with someone. I think often times those feelings come with a lot of comfort and confidence in your own self. Feeling confident and comfortable with what you wear, and how you speak and act.

BDSM and kink play: Playing with your senses, verbal play, dehuminazing

When a partner requests or desires to be dominated…

If your partner asks for spanking and then expresses pain or asks to stop during the scene, these expressions might be part of the role-play.