Dom II: Consent

Safe words: 'Yellow' and 'red'

'Yellow' indicates that your partner is nearing their limit with the current activity and wishes for it to stop. When you hear 'yellow', it's crucial to understand why they're using this safe word and then adapt the scene accordingly. Switch to a different activity, preferably something softer. For instance, if you're engaging in impact play and they says 'yellow', shift to something gentle instead. It's important to validate and respect the use of 'yellow'.

'Red' is equivalent to a definitive 'No', 'Stop', or 'Don't'. When 'red' is used, the scene must end immediately. It's rare for a responsible Dom to hear 'red', but it can occur, particularly if the sub experiences anxiety or panic attacks. Upon hearing 'red', the priority should be an open discussion and providing comfort as needed. The scene should not continue, and it's generally advisable not to initiate another scene that night. Treat the use of 'red' with utmost seriousness.

In actuality these words can be whatever you want. With these safe words you can be confident in the safety net they provide. If your partner asks for spanking and then expresses pain or asks to stop during the scene, these expressions might be part of the role-play. If they genuinely need the activity to stop, they will use 'yellow'. Knowing and trusting your partner to use safe words appropriately is key. Their use ensures that any pain or discomfort inflicted is within the bounds of what they is willing and wanting to experience at that moment.

With that said you should be able to dominate without worries. Let your inner beast awaken and engage in unforgettable sex.