Who am I

Personal story: As a third culture kid I saw life through various different viewpoints. I had endless curiosity. I'd like to think that this curiosity is what made me seek sexual freedom. Away from the shackles that society puts us in.

As a teenager I was quite shy and meek. But I didn't shy away from discussion of sex. Sometimes I got the chance to get my hands dirty and explore everything about people's bodies. During my later teenage years I learned how fucking kinky people really are. I got into it.

At the same time, I was actually still seeking myself. I never realised the desires I had for having sex with a man. I had never felt a true desire, until one day at the gym of all places. It was an intense and feral feeling. After which I knew I had to try it.

As a bisexual man I've been enjoying sex in many different ways with various different people. For the past 8 years I've had straight up amazing experiences. Currently, exploring shibari and its twists.

The fact that sex is still a taboo subject around the world is ridiculous! There should be no shame.

Even though I say that, I’m ashamed that I blur my face here. This isn’t my main job, and I’m unfortunately pressured by work, family, society at large. Don’t worry though, in our personal calls you’ll get to see me and my beaut moustache :)

- J

p.s. Some of my current sexual desires are:

Learning shibari properly

Trying out what it’s like to be a sub/switch